Please Dominate Me Mistress!
September 26, 2019|Domination, Domme, Fantasy, Fantisize
If I had a dollar for every time I heard this phrase I would be richer than Oprah! For one to even desire to be dominated he have will arrived at a higher understanding of himself. He will have recognized his place as one who needs to know what it feels like to submit. Chances are he will have seen some porn dealing with dominance and submission and powerful, authoritative people. He has inserted himself into his role within that scenario and that fantasy has formed deep roots within his consciousness. The fantasy grows to the point he can no longer just fantasize about it and he decides he will seek out a way to live out his fantasy and he hops online and begins the search for a Domme. This is no easy task! It takes starting profiles on kink sites where Dommes might be found and/or searching escort sites and there is a level of risk involved in just doing those things. He finds a couple prospective Dommes that pique his interest and he reaches out not knowing what to expect. The typical first message usually contains the phrase "Hey beautiful," or "Please dominate me mistress," and that's it. What these horny horny people fail to recognize is the scope of domination! There are literally a million ways someone can dominate another person. That being said if one hasn't ever experienced any kind of domination it might be somewhat difficult to know exactly how he likes
to be dominated. The best place for one to start is to do what he has been fantasizing about! Tell your Domme your fantasies! It is still very difficult to read people's minds and while Dommes do have special powers...mind reading isn't one of those powers. Be upfront with your hard limits and boundaries and keep those limits. Telling your Domme you have no limits is dangerous and irresponsible. Everyone has things they do not want done by another person and your Domme cannot operate based on assumptions. Don't be afraid to try things! If you don't know what you want then your Domme will try a myriad of things and it's up to the sub to signal if those things are helping or hurting the scene. Sometimes, many times, painful things very much help a scene! Finding out which fantasies one wants to turn into realities should be an extremely fun thing. The more open one is with his Domme about his fantasies the better that Domme can help live out and discover new layers to that same fantasy. The satisfaction one derives from a fantasy becoming a reality is hard to measure. Its an intense thing to realize you just did the thing that you saw in that one porn video that you've been jacking off to for the past year. Try it and see!
